In this remarkable memoir, Lara
Gelya recounts her life journey, spanning over five decades, from her childhood
in Ukraine to her years in Uzbekistan and eventually to her new life
in the United States. The book examines humanity’s capacity to adapt,
persevere, and thrive in adversity. Gelya's story begins in Vinnitsa, Ukraine,
where she was born in 1950 to a Jewish family. Her childhood was marked by
discrimination and stigma due to her Jewish heritage, which she experienced
firsthand during her early years in school and social interactions. Her
parents' divorce when she was twelve years old added to her sense of insecurity
and confusion. As a young girl, Gelya spent summers with her grandmother in
Belarus, where she developed a close bond with her two aunts, Inna and Mila.
These summers were filled with laughter, adventure, and memorable experiences
that shaped her childhood. The aunts' affection and care helped Gelya feel
loved and accepted during a tumultuous period.
Gelya's experiences in Uzbekistan, where she worked
as a geophysicist, are equally fascinating. She recounts her time in the
Kyzylkum Desert, where she developed a deep appreciation for the harsh
environment and its unique inhabitants. Her encounters with camels, which she calls
“ships of the desert,” symbolized are noteworthy. Camel from Kyzylkum takes a
dramatic turn when Gelya leaves Uzbekistan and seeks a better life in the
United States. She embarks on an exciting and challenging journey with only two
suitcases and $140 in her pocket. Her experiences in New York and later in the Rockville area in Maryland and Northern Virginia are marked by struggles and triumphs as she
navigates a new culture and builds a new life. Throughout the book, Gelya
weaves together stories from her past and present, reflecting on the lessons
she has learned. She writes candidly about the challenges she faced as a Jewish
woman in the Soviet Union, where anti-Semitism was rampant. Her accounts of
discrimination and humiliation are heartbreaking but ultimately provide the foundation
on which her resilience and personality are built. The themes of identity,
belonging, and grit are woven throughout the book. Gelya's journey is one of
self-discovery as she navigates multiple cultures and identities. Her
experiences in Uzbekistan, where she was seen as an outsider due to her Jewish
heritage, contrast her later life in the United States, where she finds
acceptance and belonging. The narrative features an arresting tone, stunning
photography, and insightful passages. The gorgeous writing augments the entertainment quality of the narrative. Camel
from Kyzylkum is a tale of personal
transformation, growth, and adventure, a memoir brimming with lessons for
immigrants seeking a place they can call home. It has resonant themes and
lessons that will help many readers.